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7/13/2025, 4:47:37 PM
The green-eyed monster
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braven
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7/13/2025, 6:41:29 PM
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This is another great post....and would be equally amazing in the grammar pocha. 😇 Brilliant insights at the interplay of two very common yet terribly misunderstood emotions. hmm....what emotions are not terribly misunderstood? Not sure we are very good at teasing out the nuances of emotions when trying to deal with them...especially in the moment. You are wise to set this out...take time....spend time...invest time....in patterns that reveal themselves to us....call out to us. If we 'animalize' our emotions, that seems to be a good way to 'communicate' with them. Make pets out of our emotions....give them life, agency. We are going to have them the entirety of our lives. The wisest among us would make good friends of their emotions. Peace.😇
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seraphima
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7/13/2025, 7:40:44 PM
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Well, as always, you punctuate your points poignantly. 🙏 So, if love, unconditional, of course, is a thing, a noun, comprised of other nouns, feelings, and verbs, doings, what can be said of “animalizing” it? How shall love be given agency and become, therefore, a good “friend?”
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sacredcow
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7/18/2025, 12:16:06 PM
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Everything is fleeting on this planet. "Hold on loosely but don't let go"... Nothing is ever a guarantee here in this human life. Enjoy the small things and be happy you had a chance to experience those emotions, feelings and situations. Learn from the past but don't dwell upon it. Living in the past stops you from enjoying the present.
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siouxsie
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3/6/2026, 9:57:34 PM
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I'm the green-eyed monster if you haven't figured it out.
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q2025
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7/16/2025, 7:17:51 AM
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Envy - wanting what someone else has Jealousy - Not wanting to share what you have Far as Im concerned, they're both negative emotions that need to be controlled and eliminated if possible. Most people don't realize they can train their emotional responses, to some degree. Kinda like how you can train yourself to eat better and live better.
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seraphima
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7/16/2025, 7:28:32 AM
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“Share?” I guess it depends the context.
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q2025
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7/16/2025, 8:27:31 AM
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Jealously guarding your man, your land, your rights, your culture, your job kind of context 🙏
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7/16/2025, 11:03:43 AM
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mrs_cms
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7/16/2025, 4:12:37 PM
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There is no such thing as good jealousy. For me personally, it is the one emotion I fear because it transforms me into Gollum. The very worst version of myself.
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7/18/2025, 3:26:41 PM
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Comparison is the thief of joy
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seraphima
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7/18/2025, 3:44:11 PM
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Exactly. I wish for everyone to be happy, healthy, and wise. Their success (by any metric) shouldn’t diminish mine and vice versa. 🙏
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7/17/2025, 12:57:15 AM
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sonatime
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7/17/2025, 1:15:24 PM
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@mirukitsune it appears abundantly clear Sera is being unfaithful to you:) better watch some Andrew Tate vids:)
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siouxsie
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2/7/2026, 8:24:06 PM
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Reminder
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mirukitsune
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7/18/2025, 5:40:24 PM
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Wow, who is this popular lady? Can we be friends? so many bumps make me jealous. we'll, I bet she never wants to be friends with a dishwasher. I wish I could be a coffee maker instead of a dishwasher... \*sob\*
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seraphima
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7/19/2025, 10:13:28 AM
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Oh hai! Dishwasher, you say. Fascinating. Let’s get coffee so you can tell me all about it. 😊
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mirukitsune
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7/19/2025, 8:25:59 PM
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Thank you, I can't believe you offer me a coffee day out. but you have to buy me the coffee, I only have dust in my wallet.
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