soj.ooO
BETA
The social discussion platform
Home
Pochas
Channels
Videos
Log in
Sign up
Sign up
Home
Pochas
Channels
Videos
Log in
Sign up
seraphima
·
p/grammar
·
7/13/2025, 7:53:22 PM
Classic Honor
86
bumps
16
comments
Share
Comments
Log in to join the conversation
Log in
or
Sign up
L
logical
·
7/30/2025, 3:04:00 AM
·
permalink
To seek honor is the ego To feel shame when dishonorable is useful To be honorable is to find peace \-logi
Save
Cancel
6
bumps
Share
seraphima
·
7/30/2025, 12:20:28 PM
·
permalink
What a wise man. ☺️
Save
Cancel
3
bumps
Share
L
logical
·
7/31/2025, 1:09:53 AM
·
permalink
oh psshhhh you are too kind
Save
Cancel
1
bump
Share
rick
·
7/28/2025, 3:44:23 AM
·
permalink
They would not negotiate in bad faith such as we did with Iran and Russia. They knew the value of honor. Excerpt.  Cicero and his Stoic philosophy, based exclusively on the natural law that St. Paul referred to in his Letter to the Romans as “written in their hearts while their conscience also bears witness,” provide a moral ideal that all national leaders, public figures, and ordinary men and women can practice that can transform the world—a virtue he calls “greatness of soul.” **Honor: a Greatness of Soul** In On Obligations (De Officiis) the Roman statesman and philosopher advises his son Marcus to live as a magnanimous man with “greatness of soul.” This noble moral ideal of manhood embraces many qualities, but its essence is honor. An honorable man never neglects his duties, never fails to perform his obligations to all the persons with whom he enjoys relationships and associations, “for there is no aspect of life public or private, civic or domestic, which can be without its obligation, whether in our individual concerns or in relations with neighbors.” An honorable man lives according to the cardinal virtue of justice rendering to every person his proper “due,” giving homage to the Roman gods, rendering piety to ancestors, revering parents, upholding the sanctity of the family, and respecting the humanity of all people. He follows Plato’s teaching that “we are not born for ourselves alone, for our country claims a share in our origin, and our friends likewise; . . . men have been begotten for men’s sake to be of service to each other.” A Person of Integrity The honorable man Cicero praises is never ruled by narrow self-interest but always by the common good, and he determines his moral decisions according to unchanging principles that are “steady and unshifting” rather than based on pleasure and pain. A person of integrity, the honorable man acts by “good faith, in other words truthfully abiding by our words and agreements.” He never engages in any form of deceit by a misuse of the law through “chicanery” and “sharp practice.” An honorable person is bound to keep a promise even to an enemy. In a famous episode in Roman history, Regulus, a Roman prisoner captured by the Carthaginians in the First Punic War, received a temporary release to negotiate a prisoner exchange between the two armies. He not only argued against the prisoner exchange that would free him from bondage –an unfair bargain to the disadvantage of his country—but also returned to the enemy to suffer the death sentence: “when friends and relatives sought to detain him, he preferred to return to face execution rather than to break his word which he had pledged to the enemy.” Regulus’s example of honor and integrity captures Cicero’s ideal of greatness of soul. **The Ends Never Justify the Means** Roman honor despised treachery and baseness. When a deserter from the army of Pyrrhus offered to poison his king in exchange for Roman protection and asylum, the Roman Senate sent the traitor back to Pyrrhus with contempt for his cowardice: “This was their way of refusing to approve the treacherous murder even of an enemy who was both powerful and an unprovoked aggressor.” To an honorable man, the craftiness of the fox and the baseness of cowardice insult the dignity of a human being. He wishes to win only by obedience to just laws and through high-minded motives based on courage and principle. A great-souled man never resorts to the Machiavellian argument that the end justifies the means. In another famous episode from Roman history, an Etruscan schoolteacher who wished to win the favor of the Romans against his people betrayed not only his army but also exploited children to perpetrate treason and give the Romans an advantage in the battle. During the time for recreation and exercise he one day cleverly led all his pupils on a long walk to the enemy camp and offered them as captives for use as ransom. Instead of ingratiating himself with the Romans who felt insulted by the ignominious offer, the schoolmaster was stripped of his clothes, bound by the hands, and sent back disgracefully with the schoolboys whipping him for his vile misconduct. The Romans said to the schoolmaster that they win wars honorably—by arms and by courage—and not by trickery and subterfuge at the expense of school children. Men with greatness of soul are “guileless, friends of the truth, and total strangers to deceit.” https://www.setonmagazine.com/dad/dr-mitchell-kalpakgian/honor-in-ancient-rome-why-they-loved-greatness-of-soul
Save
Cancel
10
bumps
Share
seraphima
·
7/28/2025, 5:35:05 AM
·
permalink
Great stuff! 🙏❤️ I can’t agree more.
Save
Cancel
2
bumps
Share
gracejoy
·
7/28/2025, 8:05:01 AM
·
permalink
I didn't know this about Romans. It's disheartening that such a society could still descend into degeneracy & fall. . "*The Ends Never Justify the Means*." This explains how we're corrupted, little by little. People don't recognize the slippery slope, that the only possible outcome is for evil to grow. A contemporary example is Zionists: They feel superior, by comparison, when they support the dehumanization & genocide of Palestinians; & don't realize they're allowing the stage to be set for Palantir, once infrastructure is ready, to do the same to them. . . 1984\. **KGB defector [Yuri Bezmenov](https://bigthink.com/the-present/yuri-bezmenov/)** "describes America of today & outlines **4 stages of mass brainwashing** used by the KGB." "‘*They are **programmed to think & react** to certain stimuli in a certain pattern \[alluding to Pavlov\]. **You can not change their mind even if you expose them to authentic informatio**n. Even if you prove that white is white & black is black, you still can not change the basic perception & the logic of behavior*.' "**Demoralization is a process that is** ‘***irreversible***.’ Bezmenov actually thought (back in 1984) that the process of demoralizing America was already completed. It would take another generation & another couple of decades to get the people to think differently & return to their patriotic American values, claimed the agent. "In what is perhaps a most striking passage in the interview, here’s how Bezmenov described the state of a ‘*demoralized*’ person: "‘*As I mentioned before, exposure to true information does not matter anymore*,’ said Bezmenov. ‘***A person who was demoralized is unable to assess true information**. The facts tell nothing to him. Even if I shower him with information, with authentic proof, with documents, with pictures; even if I take him by force to the Soviet Union & show him \[a\] concentration camp, **he will refuse to believe it, until he \[receives\] a kick in his fan-bottom. %%When a military boot crashes his balls then he will understand. But not before that%%**. That’s the \[tragedy\] of the situation of demoralization.*’" . . "**[MASS PSYCHOSIS](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=09maaUaRT4M&list=TLPQMTQwODIwMjGjyF12rpAGuw)** \- How an Entire Population Becomes MENTALLY ILL" (24:48). 
Save
Cancel
4
bumps
Share
rick
·
7/28/2025, 3:33:17 PM
·
permalink

Save
Cancel
2
bumps
Share
mirukitsune
·
7/13/2025, 8:58:06 PM
·
permalink
To @seraphima } click that chain to put a link.  For example - [Click This Bitches](https://www.artstation.com/)
Save
Cancel
12
bumps
Share
seraphima
·
7/13/2025, 8:59:09 PM
·
permalink
I DID. I did do that and, clearly, it didn’t work. I’ve been posting for a couple months and I’ve done it successfully before but this time…no bueno. 😭
Save
Cancel
9
bumps
Share
gracejoy
·
7/25/2025, 11:40:03 AM
·
permalink
When you're writing, in the lower right is a Preview Post 👁 icon. I use it as I write, it will usually show errors. Of course, I don't always use it, or forget at the last minute😂
Save
Cancel
2
bumps
Share
mirukitsune
·
7/13/2025, 9:02:30 PM
·
permalink
Wipe your tears and do better next time. I'm rooting for you! Fight!
Save
Cancel
3
bumps
Share
M
mrs_cms
·
7/13/2025, 9:57:26 PM
·
permalink
Honor and fame, fortune are mutually exclusive IMHO.
Save
Cancel
7
bumps
Share
braven
·
7/16/2025, 8:57:41 PM
·
permalink
This is good. What is your take on this? I wrestle with this one on a more than regular basis. The trade off seems obvious when one listens to most any utuber...influencer. Is it...Give up your honor to pass this door? It appears, sounds, and feels a lot like that. Or...and this could also be, do they already have no honor....so fame and fortune are a legitimate "success" for them? All their talent, hard work and effort are to be commended...but only after acknowledging that fact of lack of honor? That...or we need better role models? Hollywood has set the bar so incredibly low...and people compete to go lower just to get online attention...how messed up is that. Be interesting to hear your take on it...thanks for bringing this up. Peace.😇
Save
Cancel
3
bumps
Share
S
sandor
·
7/19/2025, 4:20:50 AM
·
permalink
the oed doesn't concur.
Save
Cancel
1
bump
Share
braven
·
7/13/2025, 8:51:20 PM
·
permalink
"So how can we be useful? " Without doubt, one of the most 'useful' questions of our time. Thank you ever so much for raising this issue. "Why is the concept of honor even remotely important in 2025 Western civilization? I fear it’s not but I think it **should** be. " If we substitute one modal for another, we might get a more convincing result. "I fear it's not, but I think it **must** be." When dealing with modals, I remember a professor making the joke... "Don't should on me". 🤣 ...and I laughed. Jokes aside, the concept of 'honor' is without exception one of the most important patterns we will ever experience. And to take that one step further...one of the most important patterns we will ever "embody." Your insight to use Cicero and his concept....brilliant! **Embodied Usefulness.** If we use personal experience as a guide....**healing hands**....are the most useful things human beings have. How best can we use our hands to heal ourselves and others? There is honor in this adventure. I can think of no better investment of time and effort, than to learn how to use our hands...to help. To be honorable. And here we are.😇 Peace.
Save
Cancel
5
bumps
Share
seraphima
·
7/13/2025, 9:17:31 PM
·
permalink
I’m never going to forget that modal. “Don’t should on me” is now etched into my mind. Lol 😂 I love it. So, yes, we *must* use our hands. Now, my job for the day is to go figure out how to do that to the best of my ability… 🤓
Save
Cancel
2
bumps
Share
Signature
Loading…
Verify locally
Close