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3/6/2026, 4:53:07 PM
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hunter
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3/7/2026, 4:27:47 AM
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Well if everyone cool is leaving I guess I should peace out, too
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logical
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3/6/2026, 6:55:17 PM
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I don't understand this female type of logic at all. Shane didn't start this, Suzy didn't start this. Seraphima started this. Have you considered putting the shoe on the other foot here. Where clearly you chose Seraphima's side and continue to make a bunch of excuses for her behaviors. All of these excuses you've applied to seraphima why don't you apply them to Shane and Suzy? If someone is attacking me online constantly harassing me and my significant other, I would lash out against them in retaliation. That's human. Being on the side of the attacker and using the guise of "She was having a mental health crisis!!" is shameful and dangerous. Have you considered the Mental Health crisis caused to the people Seraphima attacks? Let alone Miru and your whole crew of creepy weirdos who stalk people. Victim blaming at it's finest, thanks for showing your true colors on the way out!
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mrinfinity
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3/6/2026, 8:00:41 PM
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She must have left out the part about the things I've not publicly mentioned, like the blatant racism on Discord, personal attacks such as calling other a 'stupid bitch' To clarify, I am indeed only a community member, there are no special agreements I have no special access, and the only 'leadership' I've done is create a Discord management bot for us all to watch movies together and am helping, in my free time, with the Sojooo DAO. I post about tech, and humbly believe in a better world. That's it. Here's a scenario in which is truthful, and happened: We're pushed to the degree, ignore it for months, and then when enough is enough and we finally say something after our friends and others are attacked with things like 'ive had a relationship with such and such, miri is such and such, I have the receipts' The defense is not 'she apologized, she was having a mental health issue' - There is no point in my life where I've ever had a mental health issue, lashed out at people and it was 'ok' - These are the types of rants/accusations that cause drama in people's lives. Posts like these, rather than be a part of something we're all trying to do in which you had an open invitation to do so, and I've not stopped you, and nobody has: instead of reaching out to me, or anybody personally you make a post to cancel culture me, slander myself and the things I work towards, for what, people to agree with you? It's the things I've not mentioned about these situations because of said mental health issues, I'm not here to destroy people. You consistently have called me a narcissist getting other people on board with this as well. Kindness is a choice, please reflect on your actions as I don't deserve to come in to something specifically targeting me to make everybody... hate me?
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braven
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3/10/2026, 2:42:00 AM
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Hey Shane, *Kindness is a choice, please reflect on your actions as I don't deserve to come in to something specifically targeting me to make everybody... hate me?* This is a really good sentiment...all round. No hate here. Peace
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3/6/2026, 8:37:57 PM
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Well and that's what I said a few weeks back, I don't want to keep repeating things that have occurred to excessively shame someone. I don't bring it up. It's over, but some people seem to want to hold onto a grudge here. 🙏❤
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mrinfinity
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3/6/2026, 8:46:18 PM
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They have growing up to do. They can cancel culture me if they want, it's fine: I get it. I walk from a fire I don't wish on anybody, and hope people get the mental health and support they need, trying to ruin mine is something I'm going to let go of. I'm here because I want to be here. I came to soj.ooo because Andrew gave me a voice back that no longer existed in a world. Hence, creativewriting.
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3/6/2026, 9:28:38 PM
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I'm Here because I am banned from reddit for saying there's only 2 genders. And I appreciate the platform's vision. I miss Genny FYI.
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felbz
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3/7/2026, 8:34:44 AM
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You're about to be banned from /p/freethinkers if you keep that 2 gender nonsense up, bucko
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braven
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3/6/2026, 5:42:31 PM
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This is a brilliantly insightful post. The level of discomfort it may cause....may do all of us some good. It has quite a bit of pain emotionally embedded in it....hard to digest without reflection...not easily digested even then. Some pills are bitter to swallow....but necessary. This was one. I for one, have had nothing but positive interactions with you, so this is distressing to see things come to this.....my apologies if I did not make more of a stand to defend those who were 'in need'....at that time. It was all, and still is....very confusing...and emotionally unsettling. Unfortunately, all the confusion has had negative consequences. And here we are. Thank you for sharing this.....wishing you nothing but good health and eternal respect. Peace.😇
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sonatime
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3/6/2026, 6:12:09 PM
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Rusalka has pulled a tactical retreat from these trenches and returned into the real world:) wishing her all the best 
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siouxsie
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3/6/2026, 7:12:21 PM
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Tactical backfires are the best rotten fruit falls on its own.
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sonatime
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3/6/2026, 7:54:40 PM
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Moral righteousness can be intoxicating, but only to those directly involved. If I’m “sparring” with someone here, at least it happens openly... people can choose for themselves whether to engage, judge, or ignore it. That’s why I wish issues originating outside of soju stayed where they were understood and be resolved there, and why some things should simply be let go, because they won’t make sense here anyway. I believe soju should be treated as a communication and publishing platform for ideas, more than a place for hashing out interpersonal conflicts. I want this forum to succeed, and I would like to be able to recommend it to others.
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siouxsie
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3/6/2026, 8:02:35 PM
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The issue is that this person wanted so badly to damage me personally (others as well) and it backfired so badly that they ragequit the discord multiple times. It bled out here mostly because it's where she would get any attention (even if negative) from the person she was trying to lash out at. She was trying to triangulate herself into my relationship while simultaneously trying to hit on anything else that moved and had a penis. Like please take your sluttery somewhere else or at least don't make it embarrassing. This is what happens when narcissists figure out they aren't going to win, so they try to pull everyone down with them. It's actually really pathetic and cringe to watch, and be a part of when you have no choice in it. Should I just continue to ignore disrespect while it's spewed at me while they hijack posts for their smear campaign? If anything this is slander and harassment and I won't tolerate bitches who can't stay in their lane.
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sonatime
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3/6/2026, 10:02:12 PM
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You have shed more light on this than before but this is a situation where nothing probably can be taken back and maybe made sense of. And turning this into public justice probably won't satisfy anyone seeking clarity. The bigger picture is that if you can't find a way to make emotional peace with it, you'll be the one left carrying the constant aggravation. Being wronged or betrayed is unfortunately part of life and probably more common in online spaces where communication is always incomplete but holding onto this just keeps feeding the mistrust. At some point we all have to figure out how to accept what happened, maybe learn how to avoid it in the future, and move forward. Nothing in life is risk-free, and staying stuck in the loop usually costs more than letting go
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3/7/2026, 5:12:39 AM
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Yes but the point here being WHOM CREATED THIS POST?? you sound like another alt acct making excuses for Seraphima and Rusalka now. There are the ones who are moving on, and there are the ones who keep bringing it up. Whom keeps bringing it up???
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sonatime
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3/7/2026, 5:50:27 AM
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It's not my style to vent anything personal, so I would never post something like this myself, but I don’t control what others do, and that’s probably for the best. I answered braven and siouxsie replied, and we were just talking. As far as I know, siouxsie and I have always been on good terms. While I might see some things differently, it can also be therapeutic to hear a perspective that isn’t just an echo. She can simply tell me she’s not interested in the topic and that is it and or not reply, I'm easy to get along and no offense will be taken. Even though I wasn’t directly affected, I was baffled by how things unraveled in an grown up adult space and my mind couldn't piece together what I was seeing in the recent past. This might have been therapy for me. Was I the only one keeping this post alive? Anyone who doesn’t agree with me is an alt account?:) Rhetorical questions only:)
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braven
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3/7/2026, 12:41:30 PM
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*Whom keeps bringing it up???* Who...not whom. Peace.😇
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3/7/2026, 11:01:32 PM
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thanks for the grammar check seraphima
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braven
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3/7/2026, 11:26:17 PM
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Nah....I went in with humor...a precedent set...yes?😅 Totally not her...but I get the jibe. Well played. Peace😇
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3/8/2026, 12:25:10 AM
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ok?
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