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Parent Post: Picture yourself chillin’ in this chair. What are you doing ? What are you thinking?
goyim
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3/12/2026, 4:33:00 PM
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I'm likely trying to read but my mind is distracting me making it nearly impossible to just read a book and take in life at this very moment cos despite this place of serenity and a nice garden around me, I know it's not mine and it bothers me to know that it could have been mine with things are starting to look in a direction I didn't expect them to go. And there's so much uncertainty going on in my life I worry about the future And The need to get a head in life where I don't have to worry about simple things. I apologize if that was a bummer of a statement just not in the head space for a positive optimistic response
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mrs_cms
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3/12/2026, 4:55:23 PM
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It is not my garden either. It was an English garden in an AirBNB I stayed in 2 years ago. It inspired me to look into creating such a space, but not just with pretty plants, but with medicinally and nutritionally worthwhile plants. I wish you well. Though it sounds like a simple platitude, this has worked for me - an action plan is the victor over worrying every time. Worrying has inherent opportunity cost. This is part of what Soj.ooO should be. A place where non-adversarial contributors can kick around ideas. Creating adversaries also leads to massive opportunity cost, so I pray that collectively we stop doing this.
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