Comment on 3/25 What Do you look for in a Mate? by necrokittie

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necrokittie · 3/25/2025, 3:39:29 PM · permalink

a guy who picks up the slack or fixes a situation in which i'm stressed out over. generally makes life fun to live. it's the simple things that let me know they appreciate me for what i do and genuinely want me to succeed in the endeavors i want to achieve all while recognizing if there is a goal they want me to achieve that i would like to but i am not dedicated towards that goal, that instead of getting frustrated with me, they remove the roadblocks for me. for example if i want to lose some weight, instead of getting angry when i don't go walking often enough to achieve that goal, they just carve out a good moment and go walking with me, chatting about whatever topic that won't demotivate me.   
  
my standards on looks are low... mildly ugly is ok with me, i don't care about height, i don't care about weight as long as they don't mind being carnivore until they normalize it, then they can be keto.. and even have cheat meals.  and most importantly... they have a source of income that is not me.. so. basically. just a supportive close to average dude that isn't ultra poor. not too old or young, or too crippled to function in life/has to be stronger than me.  
  
major bonuses for liking half the things i like/some shared hobbies. major bonuses for having apocalyptic warlord potential, are a prepper, or wants to raise and/or hunt tasty animals.  
  
a guy is disqualified if he hits me, emotionally abusive, constantly gaslights me, pranks me often, isolates me/doesn't let me have friends/keeps driving off friends i make, or continues to do an action that makes life not fun or worth living after being warned to stop.  all of the disqualifiers i learned i hate from having to experience them personally, which is why i'm so serious about a guy not having those traits.  
  
there is a quiz out there that tells you about what your language of love is, i found it very insightful, because while i like praises, and gifts, it's really when a guy does things for me to improve my life that i truly appreciate, quality time was my second. i would of linked it but it seems a bunch of websites made their own version and i dunno what one is the OG made by professionals and which are just made by some dude in a basement trying to get traffic to his boss's site. if i remember right, it was free with the option to pay for more insight.
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