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Parent Post: 3/25 What Do you look for in a Mate?
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mommyoftwobirds
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3/25/2025, 6:52:32 AM
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I agree with the factors of communication and ability to be vulnerable. However, it is not always easy if your partner does not hold that safe space for you, although it is never the intention, because I believe we all want the same thing. In order to get to that level, a deeper connection in multiple aspects and alignment needs to fall into place. I believe this can’t be forced… otherwise we could be this way with every partner. It is difficult because both parties need to be able to be open with each other in that way, but not every partner reciprocates. I find it can be very hard to be, but with the right person, it could come easy. That does not mean it doesn’t take work. Relationships require continuous effort (not to the point where it’s always climbing mountains or going against your nature) and always choosing each other over and over again.
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3/25/2025, 2:41:43 PM
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This is a Great Point!! Forcing things imo doesn't work. Reciprocation is key, I like this mindset.
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mommyoftwobirds
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3/26/2025, 1:40:40 AM
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I know I didn’t answer the post question, but chose to piggy back off your thought hehe 🫡
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3/26/2025, 1:42:41 AM
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No worries! participation is optional obviously, you made great points regardless!
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