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siouxsie
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3/12/2026, 7:49:35 PM
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sacredcow
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3/13/2026, 6:33:07 PM
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Lots of people have lots of excuses, you have to know who you are dealing with so you know what to expect. I don't expect people to get better, because in general they wake up and continue to make the same choices they have made in the past. Actions speak a lot louder than words. Watch people, that will tell you who they are. "Watch" people, I guess online people can be more chameleons than in real life. The facade eventually crumbles...
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siouxsie
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3/13/2026, 7:21:22 PM
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Excuses are just that though. Easy to see through. The real thought is the reason behind the excuse. is it genuine? then there’s your real answer.
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sacredcow
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3/13/2026, 9:35:48 PM
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Usually it breaks down to them being a piece of shit or wanting to do their own thing. Meh, let them go...
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siouxsie
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3/13/2026, 9:42:45 PM
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And what of the ones that don't leave you alone? That's really what poses an issue. One has to also be able to deflect the bullshit that is flung at them, especially when it's baseless. :p
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sacredcow
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3/14/2026, 12:18:48 PM
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Fling, flung, flang it back. Or just get bored and move along. I've never had anyone follow me from one site to another, that is some upper level hating. I don't have time for all of that, I'm tired at night and falling asleep on the couch around 8:30, other people aren't on my mind that often to worry about what they are doing.
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siouxsie
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3/14/2026, 5:55:01 PM
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People can be petty as fuck :p My pettiness usually resorts to trolling instead of actual hating, At some point you start to realize it’s not that they’re haters, they’re a fan club that doesn’t realize it XD
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siouxsie
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3/13/2026, 11:34:26 PM
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And crumble it did!
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siouxsie
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3/13/2026, 7:17:41 PM
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The ones who watch for mistakes are usually making a mistake in itself. The ones who are trying to make things better are the ones who should be watched, with wonder and a notepad. ;) We tend to put people on pedestals only so we can later tear them down. Pedestals aren’t ever necessary if everyone is in common ground.
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siouxsie
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3/13/2026, 7:19:43 PM
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And yes, chameleons online are quite a huge part of the issue. You don’t see them day to day, or their habits. Or the things they are going through. We tend to only care if they have enough followers and say edgy enough things online.
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braven
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3/13/2026, 4:33:31 PM
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Hey Siouxsie, Just an observation that you might find interesting...in keeping with Corissa and the White Horse. Notice it? The rider on a Pale Horse. White Horse. *The horse is the white of the eyes* *Year of the Horse....the Fire Horse.* Interesting stuff. Patterns be a formulating right before our eyes.😅 *Peace.😇*
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siouxsie
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3/13/2026, 5:39:14 PM
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\>Patterns be a formulating This place has been “formulating” since the day I got here. this is no different ;)
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braven
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3/13/2026, 5:47:46 PM
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Right...not different...just a pattern. We notice others...noticing patterns....some good...some not so good. Implementation of the good....call out the not so good. Good call. We may 'see' things differently.....right....the surface vs the depth....which level of analysis is best given the context it is seeded in? You made some great points in your post. It isn't easy to get engagement when others don't see our patterns as helpful....or as you suggest...perhaps they read...and feel some small amount of shame? We often come up short in living up to our own grandiose expectations. And sure enough...others will come along right quick to smack us down when we make mistakes. Kinda nice if they also helped to pick us up...dust us off...friendly hug. From Haters to Huggers....something like that? And here we are. Peace.😇
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siouxsie
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3/13/2026, 6:09:00 PM
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 somehow relevant but maybe only in things.. “patterns” I see for myself ;)
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sacredcow
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3/13/2026, 6:29:20 PM
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Healthiest move? Trolling so much that they can't help but see your point of view...  I've heard Twin Peaks was good, I may have to watch the first season to check it out.
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siouxsie
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3/13/2026, 7:26:33 PM
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Trolling is actually pretty great in that respect because it keeps you sane and from reacting in ways that might be embarrassing. like rape insinuations. lol and frankly one can beat the horse dead all they want. it was never about the horse.
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sacredcow
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3/13/2026, 9:34:46 PM
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Ahh, I have a Korean man who wants to rape me also... I find him funny.
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siouxsie
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3/13/2026, 9:43:27 PM
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Goodness. Mine was a woman, strangely enough! That was a new one for me, lol.
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siouxsie
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3/13/2026, 7:28:22 PM
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You should absolutely watch it, along with Fire Walk With Me (but only watch that after season 2, before season 3! it’s important ;)
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siouxsie
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3/13/2026, 7:29:37 PM
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There’s even an extra thing called “Laura’s diaries” that I have yet to partake in. David Lynch was an irreplaceable national treasure and I’m going to miss him.
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siouxsie
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3/13/2026, 7:30:23 PM
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You’re going to see that Lynch was trying to tell us about the Epstein class all along.
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