A harbor for queer joy, conversation, and rest. This is a gay bar first, and a welcoming place for all who believe in respect, kindness, and looking out for one another.
Pocha Rules
Southern Harbor House Rules 18+ only Valid ID required. No exceptions. No grooming. No “waiting outside.” No nudity or sexual activity This is a bar, not a sex venue. Keep it respectful and public-appropriate. No harassment of any kind No touching without consent. No intimidation. No repeated unwanted attention. If someone says no, that’s the end of it. No drugs Zero tolerance for possession, dealing, or use of illegal substances. No soliciting No escorting, no transactions, no pressuring others for money, favors, or services. Respect the space and the people in it This is a gay bar built for safety and community. Anyone disrupting that will be asked to leave. Staff decisions are final. Respect keeps the harbor safe.