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Pocha for parents of autistic children. Let's share best practises, what is working, what is challenging and how you dealing with that?

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# 1

Sorry not read everything yet... but have you seen/heard the telepathy tapes yet?

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# 2

i saw them, and as a mother who really had to step up to help my son, I think those findings are not just completely useless to us but are even damaging. Spending funds on that research as well as romanticizing autism ( as they do for decades in different forms) ...i fail to see how those findings could be helpful

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# 3

Why do you think so?  I think those findings are not just completely useless to us but are even damaging.

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# 4

Romanticizing autism—especially by only showcasing the “good,” “incredible,” “mild,” or “successful” sides—can be deeply damaging. Here’s why: 1\. It Erases the Full Reality Autism is a spectrum, and while some autistic individuals are high-functioning or have extraordinary talents, many face serious challenges: communication difficulties, sensory overload, meltdowns, self-injurious behaviors, limited independence, and more. When the narrative focuses only on the “quirky genius” trope, it ignores and invalidates the lived experiences of those who struggle. Why it matters: Families, caregivers, and individuals with more intense support needs may feel unseen, dismissed, or even shamed because their reality doesn’t match the picture-perfect version of autism portrayed in media or social platforms. 2\. It Creates Unrealistic Expectations If the public believes autism equals savant abilities or minor social awkwardness, they might not understand or accommodate people whose autism presents differently. This can result in less empathy, fewer services, and more judgment. Why it matters: Children who don’t meet the “brilliant and adorable” standard may be seen as "less than." Adults may be overlooked for support because they “don’t look autistic enough.” This kind of misunderstanding can delay diagnoses, reduce funding for services, and increase stigma for those who don’t fit the stereotype. 3\. It Silences Autistic Voices Romanticized portrayals often speak about autistic people rather than with or by them. They can be used to make neurotypical people feel inspired or comforted, rather than centering the needs, rights, or perspectives of autistic individuals themselves—especially those who are nonspeaking or require high levels of care. Why it matters: True advocacy listens to the voices across the spectrum, especially those who are often left out of the conversation. Romanticization tends to uplift only the “acceptable” narratives. 4\. It Can Be Harmful to Mental Health Parents, educators, and autistic individuals themselves may internalize these idealized images and feel they’re failing when things are hard—when a child can't communicate, when there's aggressive behavior, or when no progress is visible. Why it matters: Mental health suffers under unrealistic standards. There needs to be space to grieve, to be angry, to struggle, and to ask for help—without shame or comparison to an idealized version of autism. 5\. It Undermines Advocacy and Policy Change If autism is seen as simply a “different way of thinking” that leads to innovation or success, why fund early intervention? Why fight for better special education services, accessible workplaces, or lifelong support? Why it matters: Without an accurate, balanced portrayal of autism, public policy will never reflect the real needs of the community. Romanticization makes it harder to secure resources and support for those who need it most. In short: Romanticizing autism dehumanizes by idealization. It hides the hard truths, flattens the spectrum, and excludes the most vulnerable. Compassion, awareness, and advocacy must embrace the full range of experience—celebrating strengths and recognizing challenges.

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# 5

I haven't read all of this... but it appears your problem/issue with these tapes and the points in general, are based on your own emotional journey... I get that, but that also doesn't negate or discredit these people and these tapes or what it they highlight, just these tapes do not negate the struggles of other in a similar situation.... It comes across as "that's bad, because I can't do this or my problems aren't being noticed or dealt with"....

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